I'm sure you've all experienced the excitement and/or nervousness of a first curvy date. You can talk to your closest friends and their advice is usually "be yourself! 'well, if you're like me, you don't know what that means! I never really understood how to "be myself" and what that meant. I mean, I would be a nervous person myself, telling stupid jokes like a fool, probably spilling something on my BBW dating by some clumsy accident. Is that what the suggestion means? I hope not, because that's bad advice.
No, your friends try to make you treat them like you treat them, because that's what they find most attractive about you. Of course, you should always put your best foot forward and be decent with a new acquaintance. You don't want to fart in front of your new chubby date like you did with your old friend.
However, this can be a difficult thing to do when you're nervous and you're not sure how your date will react. So here are some tips for being yourself:
If you're an alcoholic, have a drink!
Alcohol will lower your inhibitions and allow you to relax a bit, which will make you more relaxed, less nervous and less likely to show up on curvy dating. But don't drink too much; You don't want to get drunk and play dumb!
Smile and throw away the charming qualities you have retained.
Whether you're a storyteller, comedian, personality or intellectual, try to keep your conversation in a comfort zone.
Honest
If your chubby date asks a question or starts a conversation that isn't quite right with you, answer honestly and suggest some topics you'd rather talk about.
If this goes on and on, and neither of you can find the right level, then this may not be appropriate. But at least you know now, because you were yourself.
Make sure you choose an activity that is appropriate for both parties.
If you and your date are a delicacy, go out and eat! But if you're more adventurous, an active activity might be more comfortable (mini golf? Rock climbing?)For you.
There's nothing wrong with being nervous!
Remember, your BBW date may be as nervous as you are, and if they are, this is a good time to laugh at the situation and break the ice. There's nothing wrong with being nervous! In fact, if you and your chubby date are both nervous, it's probably a good sign that you've discovered something good between you that's worth exploring further.
Above all, it's a good idea to be yourself, because if you and your plus size date end up together, you're your own representative. You don't want to misrepresent who you are, because when you walk down this road together, it leads to chaos and confusion. So relax, have fun, and be yourself!